Bad Dreams
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IMDB rating: 4.90 Plot: In the mid-’70s, a cult group called Unity Field commits mass suicide, but a young girl survives. After being in a coma for thirteen years she wakes up in a psyche ward, not remembering the incident. The psychiatrist tries to help her remember, but she begins seeing the leader of the cult talking to her from the grave, and the other members of her therapy group begin to commit suicide around her. Or is it suicide? |
Actors: Abbott Bruce,Lynch Richard,Cameron Dean,Yulin Harris,Clough John Scott,Giambalvo Louis,Richardson Sy,Kronen Ben,Horror,Thriller,
Time for another baby?
I have one daughter who is 19 months old.I have always wanted to have my children close together, but didnt plan on having her so soon therefore, I didnt think it would happen. I do not regret her in anyway even though she was total surprise! She was such a good baby and is a very well behaved/ smart toddler. Ever since she turned one and started walking, I have had baby fever! I ignored it, started school and have been trying to do the right thing and getting my education! 2 semesters later, I cannot ignore the baby fever anymore! I want another baby, and so does my husband! He has been bugging me for the last few weeks and it is so hard to tell him no when I want it so bad!
I start my clinicals in the fall and have had permission to take off a semester if needed to care for the baby. We plan to TTC in April or May, maybe even June to ensure I have the baby after the first of the year. We are shooting for February that way I have around 6 months to be with the baby.I would be betting and hoping my pregnancy will not be too complicated as my first was a nightmare! The only upside to this is that I will have a full summer to get over morning sickness and fatigue. I would be around 4 to 5 months when starting clinicals.I would have to go through my first semester pregnant and I would obviously have to take off the Spring semester and I already have the summer semester off so I would have a few months with the baby as well as some time to freshen up on a few things for school.
In the back of my mind, I cant stop thinking this may not be the best decision because nursing school is very complicated and time consuming. I seem to balance my schedule very well right now with one and actually have a lot of extra time on my hands. I do not have to work as my husbands job pays well enough for us to get along just fine without a second salary.
So, heres my question…to moms/dads or anyone who is going or has went through something like this…
Is nursing school manageable with 2 kids? I have a great support system as well as free daycare for the majority of the time. My husband works 2nd shift and can help care for the baby as well so he/she will not be at a daycare ALL the time. My work load will be a little lighter as I have taken most of the classroom required classes. I will just have a few general classes and clinicals. No one semester should exceed 12-15 credit hours.
Opinions? I really do want a baby but I dont want to get in over my head and end up dropping out and ruining my dream of becoming a nurse!
Nothing rude please, I dont usually put my personal life out here like this, i just need some opinions/ advice! Its strange because I am usually on the other end giving the advice!
I am in the same boat as you and would really suggest you think really hard about how you are going to juggle going to school and having another baby. Nursing school is hard takes alot of concentration. DO you think you will be able to handle your clinical while being pregnant and having all those pregnancy symptoms if you think you can i would go for it. I want to get pregnant while in school finishing my schooling as a unit clerk so one day i can be a nurse as well but my problem is i will have 3 kids not 2 lol..
Try to think of every siutation that would take place while you are at school and any problems that could arise that would prevent you from finishing, if it seems like to much wait a while.
Mommy to princess McKenzie | Feb 04, 2010
The only caution I would bring up is sleep deprivation. Its not as easy to nap when the baby naps if you need one due to a sleepless night as it is with only one child. However, if your husband is that supportive and will help with the baby during the nights, go for it. Also, a second pregnancy is usually not as difficult as the first with morning sickness, etc. (I feel like I need to include a disclaimer here-ha ha!)
shir | Feb 04, 2010
I am a single mom of 2 and work full time. I found out i was pregnant with my second when i found out my now ex was cheating on me, so no not planned. yes there is a lot of stress that goes with 2 mine are 21 months and 3 1/2 months.
benefits
they will grow up close
diapers will end and not have to be started all over again
you remember a little more of what to expect (granted every child has there differences)
2nd child most likely will hit milestones quicker due to older sibling
older siblings assistance, throw diapers away, help entertain
downsides
older siblings assistance yes this is on benefit too, tries to much too help, they don’t always understand and do try to do too much
stress of 2 wanting you at the same time, 1 starts the other is bound to
tired you just got used to sleep again and now you up again and no you won’t always be able to sleep when baby does
remember it is your decision and even though my 2nd was a OMG I love her to death and I honestly could not imagine my life with out her in it. i wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world. yes it is stressful but if you decide to do it make sure you include your oldest in as much as possible. it really does lessen the jealousy issue, they feel needed and wanted and involved.
Stacy | Feb 04, 2010
I got pregnant my last semester of nursing school, I managed being pregnant while in school however I didn’t have any other children, hes my first! I had 2 gals in my nursing program who were also pregnant while in school, one delivered #3 at the end of our 1st semester, and the other gal delivered #4 at the end of our 2nd semester, they both managed the craziness of kids and nursing school very well but they had a very supportive family.
So it isn’t impossible but I am sure its trying and exhausting,
Are you going for your LVN, or RN?
If your LVN you could finish the program and do your LVN to RN or BSN online
Elizabeth Z | Feb 05, 2010









